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Conversing in ASL
Strategies for confirming information and asking for clarification
When
you miss a whole statement:
Avoid using the signs "again" and "slow". Deaf people
see ASL students use these all too often. Just as hearing people don't just
say to each other, "Again" or "Slow" when asking for clarification,
that's not how Deaf people sign to each other when they don't understand.
Instead, use the same language Deaf people use when conversing with each other.
Rather than signing, "again" or "slow" when you miss an
entire sentence, sign "What?" with a questioning facial expression.
- When you miss some signs or want to confirm understanding:
When you catch some but not all signs in a statement, repeat back the signs
you think you understood to the signer with a questioning expression. This
will show him or her not only that you need clarification, but it will also
let the person know what you understood so that he or she does not need to
repeat that part of message.
To
confirm that you understood a statement or concept correctly, restate the
message back to the signer with a questioning expression. This will allow
the person the opportunity to confirm that you understood correctly or clarify
parts you misunderstood.
- When you miss a finger spelled word:
Sign "finger
spell" with a questioning facial expression to ask the person to
respell the word.
To
slow down finger spelling:
In order to avoid having the person spell a word you missed over and over
again, finger spell the word with the person. This allows you to control the
speed of the finger spelling because the signer won't move on to the next
letter until you sign the letter he or she is currently signing. Spelling
with Deaf people significantly slows down their finger spelling to a pace
you can read! Also, both while finger spelling and while reading finger spelling,
rather than spelling out the word letter by letter in your mind, sound out
the word.
- Don't fake it:
Do not pretend you understand what a person is signing to you if you don't
really understand. This will only get you in to trouble when the person you
are conversing with realizes you do not understand. Take the time to ask for
clarification. One technique to help you understand the general feeling of
the conversation is to mimic the facial expression of the signer. This can
help engender feelings relative to what the signer is trying to convey.
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